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People
Build skills that help you maintain a people focus
Wholehearted devotion to god requires that we continually maintain a people focus, both on ourselves and others.
37 … “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’[c] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment.
39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[d]
40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
Matthew 22:37-40
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When we build skills that focus on people (again, this includes ourselves), we improve our connections, demonstrate our love, and help people become who God created them to be. We work through each skill by either working through the skill's documents or interacting with the skill's videos.
Build the Skill of Belief
Overview: This skill helps you...
Remove negative behaviors such as:
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Believe Lies about people
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Unstable relationships with people
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Unsure of what you believe about other or yourself
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Unsure of why you believe what you believe about others of yourself
Implement or improve positive behaviors such as:
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Believe truth concerning people
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Confident in what you believe about people
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Self-awareness: You know what you believe about people and why you believe it
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Stable relationship with people
Documents:
Weekly Review (Short): Review your week to improve your beliefs.
Weekly Review (Long): Review your week to improve your beliefs.
In-depth: Dig deep to discover what you actually believe. This may take some time, but it will be worth it!
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Click here to download the Skill of Belief In-depth document
Skill Building Videos for Belief
Skill Building Videos for Belief
How to Build the Skill of Belief
What is Belief? | How Can I Tell If My, or Other, Beliefs are True?
Why Right Beliefs Matter | How to IDENTIFY and IMPROVE Your Beliefs
What's in a Why? | The POWER of Belief
Build the Skill of Decision Making
Overview: This skill helps you...
Remove negative behaviors such as:
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Consistently anxious about how your choices will impact your future
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Consistently make poor decisions concerning yourself and others
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Second-guess yourself frequently
Implement or improve positive behaviors such as:
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You make confident decisions concerning yourself or other people
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Consistently make good decisions concerning yourself and others
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Vision for your future in relationships: You know where relationships should go and how you can get there
Documents:
Build the Skill of Decision-Making: Run through several scenarios to help you build the skill of decision-making.
Skill Building Videos for Decision-Making
Skill Building Videos for Decision-Making
Overcoming Analysis Paralysis and Indecision (FUNNY!) | Build the Skill of Decision Making Pt. 2
Overcoming Analysis Paralysis and Indecision | How to Build the Skill of Decision Making Part 3
This is Why You Can Trust God with Your Choices
Doubt, Double-Mindedness, and Indecision | Overcoming Analysis Paralysis| Decision Making Part 1
Build the Skill of Goal Setting
Overview: This skill helps you...
Remove negative behaviors such as:
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Directionless in relationships: your relationships don’t have a purpose or an end game
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Hopeless in relationships: you don’t think things will get better in your relationships
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Impulsive in relationships: consistently act without forethought
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You set poor or unrealistic goals for your relationships
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Stagnation and decline: You see yourself getting worse over time
Implement or improve positive behaviors such as:
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Hopeful in relationships: you believe you can achieve what you set out to do in relationships
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Planning in relationships: you have direction for the future of your relationships
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Self-improvement via goal setting: you get better over time
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You set great, achievable goals for your relationships
Documents:
Goal Setting: Learn the difference between goals and desires to help you create better goals.
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Click here to download the Skill of Goal Setting document
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Click here to see how I answer the Skill of Goal Setting questions
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Skill Building Videos for Goal Setting
Skill Building Videos for Goal Setting
How to Set Goals // Set BETTER Goals by Avoiding this SIMPLE Mistake
Struggling to Achieve Your Goals? Learning THIS May Help | How to Build the Skill of Goal Setting
Build the Skill of Honor
Overview: This skill helps you...
Remove negative behaviors such as:
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Alienated: feeling isolated in places where you should belong
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You dishonor people
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Don’t like yourself
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Inarticulate: hard to communicate how you feel about others
Implement or improve positive behaviors such as:
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Articulate: able to communicate how and what you feel about others
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You honor people
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Intimacy: you can get close to others and build genuine relationships
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You like yourself
Documents:
Honor: Learn how to identify a person’s value and then reveal their value to them and or others, in a positive way.
Skill Building Videos for Honor
Skill Building Videos for Honor
What is Honor and How Can We Give It to People? | Creating a Culture of Honor
Why is it Important to Honor People? | Creating a Culture of Honor
Honoring the Women in Our Lives: Word, Thought, and Deed | Creating a Culture of Honor
From Dishonored to Honored: Reclaiming Honor Among Men | Creating a Culture of Honor
Build the Skill of Integrity
Overview: This skill helps you...
Remove negative behaviors such as:
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Lie to others and yourself
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Untrustworthy: People can’t trust you, and you can’t trust yourself
Implement or improve positive behaviors such as:
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Tell the truth to others and yourself
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Trustworthy: People can trust you, and you can trust yourself
Documents:
Integrity: Improve your integrity by learning how to walk the integrity pathway
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Click here to download the Skill of Integrity document
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Click here to see how I answer the Skill of Integrity questions
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Skill Building Video for Integrity
Skill Building Video for Integrity
How to Build the Skill of Integrity | Keys to Help You Do the Right Thing
Build the Skill of Sharing the Gospel
Overview: This skill helps you...
Remove negative behaviors such as:
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You don't evangelize enough
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Afraid of sharing your faith
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You don’t know what to say when evangelizing
Implement or improve positive behaviors such as:
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You evangelize more
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You confidently share your faith
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You are confident in what you have to say during evangelism
Documents:
How to Share the Gospel PDF: A detailed overview of how to share the gospel of Jesus Christ with someone.
How to Share the Gospel (Decision Tree Only):
Skill Building Videos for Sharing the Gospel
Skill Building Videos for Sharing the Gospel
How to Build the Skill of Sharing the Gospel
Understanding and Explaining the Gospel: Part 1 Understanding the Gospel | Sermon
